Yes I understand we all have busy lives. I also feel that a few weeks notice isn't too short of a notice, 1-3 weeks isn't not a short notice. plus its not like I haven't given one date, I laid out a few dates. SO there were options. And Why can't just a get together during the month of Aug. be enough information. I just thought it would be best on a Sat.night as for we all work on MON. Unless you want to come on a Sunday. and just not go to work Mon. and I don't think we want to do that now do we. I am willing to do a Friday night in Aug. but I don't get off til 8:00